Do you hunger for Jesus Christ? Do you yearn to spend time alone with him in prayer? Is he the most important person in your life? Does he fill your soul? Is he constantly a focus of your conversation?
Has he been smothered by different distractions? Has he been made unnecessary because of your pride?
Do you regularly read his word to learn more of who he is? Do you even desire the Holy Spirit in your life? Do you think about what it means to put yourself aside and get rid of all the things that inhibit or threaten your friendship with him?